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These questions help you calibrate your heart to God's truth. Read each one carefully and discuss them together. Try to be personal; use "I" in your answers. Spend as much time as you need on each question. This is meant to be a lengthier discussion together.

Manhood and Identity According to How You Live

We can gain insight into how we define manhood and our identity based on how we live. This month, we want you to spend some time being curious about your day-to-day lives.

  1. Where do you spend the bulk of your time? What do you think that says about you?
  2. Where do you spend the bulk of your money? What do you think that says about you?
  3. What do you prioritize during your week? Why?
  4. What would you deem "essential" if it came up during the day? Why?
  5. What are three things that you value most in life? Do your actions showcase that? How?
  6. If you were to die tomorrow, what do you WANT people to remember about you? What do you FEAR people will remember about you?
  7. What is a successful day in your mind? Does your daily life look like that?
  8. Taking your answers above into consideration, how do your choices define manhood? What characteristics make "a man?" (Write down your answer to this question.)
  9. Taking your answers above into consideration, how do you define your identity? Who would you say you are? (Write down your answer to this question.)

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